Ever thought about how there are so many songs, books, and movies about the significance of receiving (or not receiving) a letter in the post? In a world where texts and DMs can be pinged across the world in the blink of an eye, and without a second thought, there is something to be said for the purposeful act of sending a physical letter. 

Remember that iconic moment when Harry Potter finally receives his invitation letter to Hogwarts? Of course, you do! No imagine if it was simply emailed over. And had Noah’s heart-wrenching proclamation in The Notebook been changed to “I sent you 365 texts… It wasn’t over… it still isn’t over!”, it definitely wouldn’t have had the same effect.

So, below is my list of reasons why letter writing can be far superior to texting, emailing or any other modern form of messaging…

Reasons to revisit the lost art of letting writing

#1 Exploration

Close up of someone practicing the lost art of letter writing.

Letter writing is an art. It’s a chance to really explore a topic, whether personal or political. You can be purposeful without purpose – you’re not organizing a meet up or sending a meme. This is about the act of writing along. Start writing to give time to your thoughts.

#2 Time and effort

Which brings us to letter writing taking time. This isn’t lost on your recipient, so they truly appreciate it when they receive your post. An instant message can be pinged over without much thought, with autocorrect to help you avoid any embarrassing spelling situations. A handwritten letter, on the other hand, doesn’t afford that luxury. The effort, planning, (and good grammar!) that goes into a well written letter is part of its charm, for both sender and recipient.

#3 Romance, baby!

An ink pen lies beside a letter with the single blue word, love written on it

Letters can be super romantic. Because they take time and effort, letters are often considered one of the most romantic ways to communicate with your partner. Which makes sense – receiving a two-sided dedication of love, which has travelled a week to reach just you, is incalculably more romantic than a text message reading “luv u babe”.

#4 Real emotion and meaning

Letters can leave less room for interpretation than text messages. In the OG days of text messaging (@TEOTD TBH, they were TMTH), we used to have to pay a charge per text, giving rise to the phenomenon of “text speak”. Trying to fit everything you want to say into a 160-character limit can be a challenge. Even though the sentiment behind “cnt w8 2 cu l8r” may be the same as “my heart yearns for the moment when we can be together again”, there is a clear difference in tone and character count. With letter writing, there is no character limit, so you can let your imagination (and vocabulary) run wild!

#5 Therapeutic value

A laptop from above on the carpet with someone writing a letter on it.

And it’s not just the recipient who benefits. The art of letter writing is therapeutic. It’s a great way to get everything off your chest and onto paper. This can be great if you want to express some deep or complex emotion, or explain an otherwise confusing idea. 

#6 Whenever, wherever

Another benefit of letter writing is that it can be done almost anywhere, no Wi-Fi or phone signal required! You can write from a beach in Bali, on a train in Siberia, in a cozy log cabin in the Swiss Alps.

#7 Touch

An often overlooked benefit of letter writing is that a letter is a physical object. It’s more special than a digital note (like the difference between photos on a phone camera roll vs ones printed and framed). We tend to attach much more sentimental value to physical objects, and so receiving a letter feels much more special.

#8 Personality

Writing a letter gives you a lot more opportunity to show off your personality. Will you choose standard, white A4 paper? Something plain or lined? Colorful? Or even scented? What you choose to write with is also something to think about, will it be a ballpoint pen? Pencil? Quill and ink?! If you’re writing online, which photos will you choose to accompany your message? Which font? How will you send it – as a postcard, an email, an open letter?

These things take some consideration, all of which will be evident to the person who receives your finished piece. So when deciding to write a letter, make sure you use all the options at your disposal to make it truly “yours”.

So what are you waiting for? Flex your fingers, grab a pen, and get scribbling!

Want to find letter-writing buddies?

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British girl turned German-wannabe- that's me! 👋 If living in Berlin has taught me anything, it's that learning about other cultures is always fun... And short of actually traveling to a country and meeting locals in person, being a pen pal has proved a great way to virtually discover people and places!

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